Serious Prayer Request
Update #2 (Good News!): I heard from Tyler again earlier this evening. It turns out that things aren’t as bleak as they seemed earlier. It turns out that the doctors do not want to do surgery because Tyler has had too many surgery’s in recent years. Another surgery right now could do immediate and irreparable damage. So, they’ve decided to wait and try chemo/radiation first and see if they can get the tumors to shrink or go away or at the very least stop growing. If it doesn’t stop growing then they’ll have to reassess and probably do a very risky surgery. As for now though, that is very good news. Please continue to keep Tyler and his family in your prayers!!! Let’s see God do something amazing here!
Update:Just heard from Tyler with bad news. There will be no surgery. The doctors just informed him that they can’t operate on the tumors and gave him 5 months to live. Please please please continue to pray. I believe that God can do something amazing here!!! Please keep him and his family in your prayers!!!
In the fall of 2008 I met Tyler at Georgia Tech. He was finishing up chemo from a very rare form of cancer and was about a year behind everyone else from his high school class because of his cancer and treatment. In January of 2009 he was supposed to come over for the National Championship game but no one could get ahold of him. We received a call from his dad that he had almost died the night before when a tumor in his brain caused an aneurism. He barely made it the hospital in time and they performed emergency surgery to save his life. He had to withdraw from GT for the semester so that he could rehab. Tyler’s a fighter if I’ve ever known one.
This past week Tyler sent a message that he was having pain in his head again and that he had a bad feeling about it. He was going in for an MRI and would let us know. After the MRI we learned that he has another tumor in his brain that they’ll operating on today at 11am. From what I’ve understood, this is a much more serious issue than before and the doctors have let them know that.
In addition, the past few January’s (between the 1st and 10th specifically) have been downright terrible for him. In 08 he began chemo for his first bought with cancer and then on the 7th of last year received his second blow. Obviously this last one came this past week as well.
Please pray with us today for Tyler. Pray for his complete healing and that when they do the pre-op MRI that they’ll find that God has completely healed him! There was a girl in our church here in NYC last year who was given just a few months to live and was prayed for and was healed. I believe that God can heal Tyler! Let’s pray for that!!! I’ll post an update when I hear something later.
Please pass this along as well and lets get a lot of people praying for Tyler this morning. And feel free to leave a comment here with a message for Tyler if you want and I will pass it along. Thanks everyone…
Book Review: Primal (by: Mark Batterson)
When I heard that Mark was putting out a new book I got excited. So far, every book that he’s written has inspired and challenged me to go deeper in my faith and pursue God with a new reckless abandon. His new book, Primal, was no different.
From the onset of the book Mark peals back the layers of Christianity and cuts through the theological disputes that have gripped us in later days and puts our focus back where it needs to be. And, by the end of the first chapter he had gripped my heart with his biblical truth. The message of this book was very timely, getting back to my first love, the things that made my heart burn that had been forgotten in the ‘business’ of Christianity and ministry through the years. This book takes us to the heart of the matter, the ‘primal’ nature of Christianity and explains it in simple, experiential ways that are easy to understand and apply to your life. I also loved the way Mark challenges you throughout the book. I stopped several times to evaluate my heart and respond to what God was speaking to my heart.
I would definitely recommend picking up this book soon and allowing God to speak to you, challenge you, and take you deeper in your relationship with Him. Mark definitely has a grace for that that we can all receive from.
You can purchase the book here…
Below you can read the publishers summary of the book as well as a bio of Mark Batterson.
Be Astonished Again
We have a tendency to complicate Christianity. Jesus simplified it: Love God with all of your heart, soul, mind, and strength. If we are to live out the essence of Christianity, we must commit to being great at this Great Commandment.
In Primal, Mark Batterson explores the four elements of Great Commandment Christianity: compassion, wonder, curiosity, and power. Along the way, he calls you to be a part of God’s reformation, starting in your own life.
As Mark writes, “Is there a place in your past where you met God and God met you? A place where your heart broke for the things that break the heart of God? Maybe it was a sermon that became more than a sermon. Maybe it was a mission trip or retreat. Maybe it was a vow you made at an altar. In that moment, God birthed something supernatural in your spirit. You knew you’d never be the same again. My prayer is that this book would take you back to that burning bush—and reignite a primal faith.”
Primal will help you live in light of what matters most and discover what it means to love God. It will help you become great at the Great Commandment.
Author Bio:
The author of Wild Goose Chase and In a Pit with a Lion on a Snowy Day, Mark Batterson serves as lead pastor of National Community Church in Washington, D.C. One church with nine services in five locations, NCC is focused on reaching emerging generations and meets in movie theaters at metro stops throughout the D.C. area. Mark has two Masters degrees from Trinity Evangelical Divinity School in Chicago. He and his wife, Lora, live on Capitol Hill with their three children. www.markbatterson.com
disclaimer: This was book was provided for review by WaterBrook Multnomah.
Advent Conspiracy
This is one of my favorite causes at Christmas time. Spend Less, Give More…
Small Groups and White People
I’m copying an interesting article below (or you can read it here) with some of my own questions following. Would love to hear your thoughts as well…
“Are Small Groups Just For White People?
Why don’t more ethnic churches have a small groups ministry?
by Sam O’Neal
I came across an interesting interview in the recent issue of Leadership Journal. The subjects of the interview were from River City Community Church—a multi-ethnic ministry located in the Humboldt Park neighborhood of Chicago. Leadership talked with Daniel Hill, who founded the ministry, along with several key leaders of the church.
Here’s a brief excerpt of their conversation:
What kind of person is attracted to River City?
Hill: Most of our new people are white. But there’s a revolving door with the white community here. They have a romantic notion of being part of a multi-ethnic church, so many of them get frustrated and leave when they realize how difficult it is to erase their assumptions about the way church is supposed to be.What assumptions do white people carry into the church?
Arloa Sutter (pastor of community life): When I came I said, “Let’s just start small groups! Everyone wants to be in a group, right?” The fact is small groups aren’t as important to other ethnicities as they are to white people.Small groups are a white church thing?
Hill: White people rely on small groups to connect. Other ethnicities form community more organically, more relationally. Immigrant communities find fellowship within extended families. In the city a lot of community happens on the front porch or sidewalk. So non-whites aren’t as eager to set up structures and systems like small groups.Carlos Ruiz (coordinator of community groups): I think whites really value efficiency.
Antoine Taylor (director of Sunday morning ministries): And releasing that value is really hard for a lot of them. They perceive other ways of operating as inefficient or disorganized.
Jennifer Idoma-Motzko (elder): They say it’s not the right way to do church. And I respond bluntly by saying, “You mean it’s not the white way to do church.”
Obviously, there are some pretty strong statements there, and they raise several important questions:
1. Are small groups primarily a “white” way to do church?
2. If we assume that non-white ethnicities connect more easily and organically than whites, does that mean small groups have no use in those communities? Or can they be a supplement to those organic connections?
3. Are small groups really about efficiency? Is that the appeal they bring to churches, whether white or otherwise?
I’ve got some thoughts on these questions, but I would really like to hear what all of you think before I let loose.
You can read the full interview with the leaders of River City Community Church in Aug/Sep issue of our digizine, Catalyst Leadership.”
So, I have a few questions as well…
1. I definitely agree that other ethnicities often develop community more naturally than white people do. Is this a fault of white people/communities? Why or why not? And, if so, how do we change?
2. Pertaining to ‘small groups’ that form naturally in other ethnicities and are Christian: Are these naturally occurring groups Christ centered, as in, are they hanging out for the sake of hanging out, or is there a bigger purpose behind them? Are they discussing how to grow closer to God and how to reach people around them or are they primarily just for community/hanging out?
I’ll hold off on any more questions for a bit. Your thoughts???
The Prosperity Gospel
I’ve had interesting experiences with the prosperity gospel. I’ve met some very generous people who loved Jesus more than anything and also believed in the prosperity message of the Bible. My concern comes from a lot of the radical prosperity teachings that occur. The prosperity gospel has a pretty good following in the ATL and I met a lot of people that attended those kinds of church. I was always frustrated, angry, and grieved after meeting with most of those people though. There emphasis was clearly on money and not Jesus. They measured there worth in dollars and cents and not an identity in Christ. Many of them, then, based how much God loved them on how much He blessed them. If they were having hard times, they must be living in sin, if it was good times, they must be doing well. Many of these people also weren’t dealing with mindsets. Still living in poverty and expecting God to bless them with wealth while not growing in principles of stewardship, etc…
I’ve then watched as the pastors of these congregations take up lofty offerings to accomplish lofty goals from their impoverished congregations while if they would just sell 1 of there 5+ $100,000+ automobiles could accomplish these goals immediately. It just seems to me like there’s a huge disparity between these teachings and the way that Jesus lived here on the earth.
Anyway, take a gander at these videos below and then let me hear your thoughts…
P.S. – more blogs to come. We haven’t had internet for a bit and I’ve had a lot swirling around in my head as well as fun NYC experiences that we’ve had so far. BUT, yesterday, we finally got internet, so, it’s good to be back in the real virtual world!
The Great Hunt of 2009
So, we searched for 1 week and 2 days to find our new apartment in NYC. It was a much more daunting task than we realized that had it’s high highs and low lows. We had heard it was a difficult process, and, we believed people. Then we went through it. It really dealt with a lot of our trust issues with God. Seriously… it was a pretty difficult and stressful process. BUT…
We got the call from our realtor yesterday that we were approved for our first choice of apartments. THANK YOU JESUS! God was faithful, even when we struggled to trust Him. Wow…
It’s a bit smaller than our place in Atlanta and about 2 times the rent. That’s not bad considering when we first looked in December/January of last year we were expecting 3 or 4 times our Atlanta rent and a much smaller place than we got.
I put together a silly little video of our apartment to the tune of U2′s ‘New York’ which you can view below. Welcome to New York!
National Geographic Says Cities Are Important
So, at the time this posts, we’ll be somewhere between the cities of Atlanta and New York City. So, I just thought this was appropriate…

A few weeks ago Jess was in the dentist office and I was waiting in the lobby. I picked up the National Geographic issue on the table which was all about the discovery of NYC, etc… really interesting stuff. There was an ad inside for a National Geographic Special Edition on the ‘State of the Earth 2010′ and the urbanization that’s happening around the globe. Needless to say, we left the dentist office and immediately went and purchased both.
As we read through the ‘State of the Earth…’ issue we were amazed. An entire section was dedicated to the urbanization of the globe. It was yet another reminder as to why God has called us to reach cities. Last year was the first time the earth became more urban than rural and that’s only going to go up from there!
Definitely a worthwhile read and a motivator to reach cities!
How Awesome Is This?!?!
Jess and I have been privileged to connect with a pastor in Ocala over the past few years named Ron Sylvia. He pastors Church @ the Springs. An awesome church that’s growing and impacting the city of Ocala in a pretty awesome way. Here’s what went down recently at their church.
The Springs currently has 4 or 5 services going on between Saturday and Sunday. They’re doing a series called ‘Servolution’ and wanted to impact their city which has been ravaged by the economic crisis more than most. They found out that a lot of the food banks were starting to get short on supplies. So, they took up an offering So, at the end of each service they got practical. They rented a uhaul size truck and took it to Wal-Mart. They challenged their people to head straight from the service to Wal-Mart and buy stuff to fill the truck with. People showed up…

(pulled from Ron Sylvia’s twitpic)
1 truck turned into 7 trucks and 7+ tons of food. There were empty shelves at Wal-Mart because of all the food they purchased (see above pic). And, while people were shopping other people were asking what they were doing. They’d tell what was going on and other people started joining in to fill the truck/s. It spilled over from the church and into the community.
Way to lead the way Church @ the Springs!!!
Holy Moly, It’s Time…
So, here’s what went down a few hours ago…
(quick backstory… we’ve positioned ourselves to move to NYC, all we need is to sell our car. As soon as that happens we’re on our way…)
We woke up this morning and attended LifeChurch.tv. Great message by Craig Groeschel. We then decided to go grab some breakfast. We’re staying at a friends apartment and were on our way across the parking lot to our car when God hit me. “It’s time to go.” It hit me strong. Really strong. So strong that I didn’t even hear my phone ringing, my wife got my attention and said, ‘hey, your phone…’.
I answered to find someone calling about our craigslist ad. They said they’d meet us right about that time we’d be finishing breakfast. Perfect.
We finished breakfast and called them to find out where to meet them, they were literally about 100 yards from us. Great couple with one car looking for another one. He drove it around for a bit and said he wanted it. We VERY briefly negotiated price and we got the price we wanted. Banks aren’t open today, so, he gave us a deposit to hold the car and we’re meeting tomorrow morning at the bank to make the swap. Awesome.
(Backtrack again… we’re moving without an apartment to move into. We need a place to stay for a few weeks while we look for an apartment up in the NYC area…)
So, I text our pastor to let him in on the good news that we’re ready to head up to NYC. Now all we need is a place to stay (kind of important I think). And here’s what was happening on his end…
He was getting up at church to tell Grace (our church family in NYC) that we were selling the car and heading up. Text arrives that the car sold. He tells church that all that’s needed is a place for us to stay for a bit. Guy in the church walks up and says, ‘hey, I’ll be out of town for the next 2 weeks, here’s the keys to my place’.
So, let me go through this again really quickly…
God Speaks… (1 hour later) Car sells… Announcement made… (2 minutes later) text from Pastor Dave in response to our text that we sold the car: ‘We just got a place for u while u look for an apt.’
And that is what God does…
Story Conference

I’ve been loving what Ben Arment has been up to lately. He’s currently working on a project called Story. Head on over to the website and check it out. Awesome stuff.
I thought it would be appropriate as my first ’cause’ post to highlight an opportunity with the conference. They’re trying to scholarship tickets to the conference for pastors who can’t chip in. Maybe you’d like to get involved…






